How To Cuckold Your Husband: A Practical Guide

I am very fortunate to live a life of permitted sexual abandon, thanks to a wonderful husband.I have been asked many times how I have accomplished this, so here are some guidelines and ideas.First, and of paramount importance, your relationship with your husband MUST be 100% rock solid. Any jealousy, insecurity, or lack of total trust, and this is NOT for you.We have both been very active in the B.D.S.M. community for over a decade. We are used to playing with others in this world which does not include sex. BDSM is a tactile game of touch, feel, and emotional paring.In addition, we have been couples-swingers for quite a long time as well, so the idea of swapping partners is not new to us.In the passing of time, I had observed that my husband?s greatest enjoyment was watching me, with whomsoever my sex partner was, as we engaged in sex play as swingers. Escort Karşıyaka His participation with the female half of the swinging couple we were engaging was fun and exciting to him, but not as exciting as watching me and my fuck-buddy partner.When my girl friend Tina came to dinner, and we both decided on the spur of the moment to go to a singles club together, my exposure to the Hotwife lifestyle began. (You can read all about this in my story titled "First Time Cuckoldress".) This is required reading for the prospective Hotwife.As the story says, my husband was so excited by this encounter, we decided to take it to its extreme, not only to excite me, but to serve his needs as well.Cuckoldry is not just about you, it is about you both as a couple. As a Hotwife, you are serving a basic sexual fetish of bornova escort your husband to see you with another male. I?m not a psychologist, but it seems that a bit of humiliation of the Alpha male is what is being sought by your mate. My husband is very Alpha, with a strong personality, very strong-willed, and extremely successful in business. In our BDSM play, he is the master, without question.Sometimes, men seek release of responsibility in the form of submission. I have seen this many times over the years. It does not diminish the male, it strengthens him to cast his Alpha state temporarily to the side. I am told that this is a sort of a "mental vacation", where the male casts aside his role as Alpha and allows things to happen to him, rather than he dictating how things will happen.Once you have put forth the üçyol escort bayan suggestion of your dating another man to your husband, I suggest a night out alone to test your ability to engage as many women can?t once the green light is given. Go slow, maybe a co-worker or divorced friend that you know will serve as a good first subject.You can start the ball rolling by pointing out to your husband the sexual charms of male movie stars, men on the street..."What a bulge he has... Wow, what I could do with that!"See his response, and act accordingly, amp it up if you get at least a positive acknowledgment from him."How would you like to see me climb that pole?" is always a good one.Be sure to always let him know that you love him, but that the presence of another man would simply be a tryst for the sake of pure sex, nothing more, and that he is your soul-mate forever.Never use another man as a wedge to get what you want from your husband, this will quickly be the end of your marriage.When I return home from a date with my hottie-stud of the day, I always make love to my husband and make sure to tell him that I love him so dearly that it hurts.